We have been friends for almost three years now! (:
Thank you so, so, so, much. And really, we don’t mind doing this. Heck, this is one of the things we look forward to in our very crappy days as a normal teenager. We take away so much in each message we receive, and it’s changed a lot of our perspectives because we got to know many stories and all the different sides of a whole. Thank you so incredibly much for your appreciation, we appreciate and love every single one of you wonderful people too. <3
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Anonymous asked: How long have you two been friends? I personally think you two are so nice to devote your time to helping and listening to others. To show my appreciation and to equal the attention you two give every single advice-seeker I want to make you girls feel that we care about you too. :) |
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Anonymous asked: I'm the last anon... I can't find ANYTHINGG bad about him!! It's so frustrating... but he's not selfish or dependant or too independant or annoying and we get a long so well, he's sharming, but knows when to stop and knows just what to say and he's not insecure but not cocky and friendly and interetsing and smart and we hang out and he likes the same things as I do :'( I know it sucks. I know it hurts. I also happen to know that things will get better somewhere along the way. Don’t fret, love. I understand what it feels like your world is breaking apart because of one guy. But I promise you’ll get over him. It could take days, it could take months. Like what Kaitlyn said, just surround yourself with things and people who can distract you. Who can show you around to a different side of life. Maybe gain new hobbies and friends along the way that will make you forget. Your guy sounds amazing. He sounds wonderful. But I can guarantee you that he’s not the only one out there for you. There’s others. Don’t try to put your life back the way it was before all this chaos came around. Don’t look back. Make new memories. Find new things to laugh about, to giggle like schoolgirls on a Saturday afternoon. Instead of mucking around, and wishing everything was back the way it was before, push your shoulders back and hold your chin up. Take this turmoil you’re going through, and use it as the bow of an archer to carry you elsewhere. With love, Bea. |
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Anonymous asked: Hello again. I'm the anon who said I wasn't allowed to shave my legs. So yeah, I talked to my mom and she said that there was no need at this age & I'm 14. So I have no idea what's she talking about. I mean , I don't want to care about what other people think but in this case , I wanna shave my legs , I wanna look pretty for a change. My mom also said that my legs will be black if I start shaving them right now. I feel like she's not understanding me or maybe she doesn't want to. Idunno thanks ! I wish I could say, just shave your legs anyway, it’s not like your mom would find out, since you wear pants all the time around people. But I can’t say that. (Because that’s what I did. My mom wasn’t opposed to me shaving, but I just went ahead and did it without letting her know I was gonna.) Maybe your mom just doesn’t want you to grow up yet. After all, parents feel sometimes don’t like the feeling of their kid growing up, and maturing into a teenager/adult. How about sweet talking your mom? Instead of trying to prove a point, and straight out arguing with her, maybe soften her up. Give her little kisses on the cheek. Bake sweets for her. Things she enjoys. And, no. Your legs don’t turn black when you shave, don’t worry. With love, Bea. |
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Anonymous asked: Heyy! How do I get over a guy I loved... without finding a new guy to obsess over? Because, honestly, I don't want a new guy to occupy my mind constantly. I just can't get THIS guy out, and he's literally taking over my brain, I think about him all the time and I don't want to, and I ask myself "why am I thinking about him NOW? there's no reason to!" but I just can't stop. It's like my brain hates me! :'( I feel just the same way sometimes! But you learn some tricks along the road. You can try thinking of some cons about them. What’s so unattractive about him? You know, those types of questions. You could also try finding a new hobby. If you find something new that you love, it could possibly get you over someone you loved before. You can also try being with yours friends or family. Take their presence for granted, you don’t want to be alone right now. That’ll just keep him on your pretty little mind. So, surround yourself with the things and people you love the most right now. That’s the best thing you can do! And I know darling! I wouldn’t have suggested finding a new guy to obsess over. That would just get you back into the same vicious cycle. -Kaitlyn |
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Anonymous asked: how can I tell if i'm bi or straight? becasue I'm a little confused right now... and don't say kiss and tell lool! thanks guys! :) Well, obviously we have to consider the fact if you like both males and females. But, as I said, that’s the obvious part. First you might have to be more specific, darling. Do you have a sense that you’re bi? Are you attracted to someone of the same gender? Are you attracted to someone of the opposite gender? I need details, hun! -Kaitlyn |
Dear Anons:
Hey guys! Kaitlyn’s out right now, it’s Bea. And I want to let her answer some anons too, considering I’ve been answering basically all of the last twenty or so. Be patient, and Kaitlyn will be on her way. (:
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm not allowed to shave my legs because my mom doesnt like it but its summer and while everyones showing off their legs with shorts,dresses and capris , then there's me, wearing jeans each and every day. How am I supposed to convince my mom, I don't think shavin our legs Is against religion because I shave under arms. I'm sorry if this is too uncomfortable to answer. You don't have to, I guess. But I think its great you guys are helping people through this blog. Thanks you (: You could try asking her why you she won’t let you. Or maybe reason out that everyone else does it, and that it’s uncomfortable for you. I’m sure she’ll see it. And yeah, you could point out the fact that you shave in your underarms, so the fact that you can’t shave your legs doesn’t make sense. Ask her when she started shaving her legs, maybe she can relate to you. It’s okay! We’re happy to help anybody, and everybody. Any questions, no matter what. (: With love, Bea. |
